Writer’s block is a little like trying to grow miniature roses (have you ever tried it?); getting those darn little buds to open up requires a lot of patience and tender-loving care.
When you hit a block like this, it’s a delicate balance: you need to finish your book but the words aren’t coming. You’ve hit the wall. Yet, more you struggle against writer’s block, the deeper you may sink into it.
If this sounds like you, keep reading for some of my best tips to help those cogs start turning again!
1. Take a break
Step away from your book for a while. This advice probably feels seems counter-productive, but stick with me here.
Time away, especially if it’s time that you give back to yourself, doing things such as taking a stroll, meditating or exercising your creative muscle in a different way such as painting or drawing, will give your artistic side space to breathe. Sometimes all you need is space in order for your creative juices to start flowing along nicely once again. So, go away and focus on something else that fills you up, and that you enjoy.
If your block lasts for a few days, don’t beat yourself up – go with it, ask yourself why are you blocked? Do some digging and figure out what’s stopping you and use your writer’s block as a fact-finding mission to explore your inner world and grow as a writer and as a human.
Allow any ideas you come up with, to flow again and you’ll be banging out words on a keyboard again (or jotting on your notepad) in no time at all. If your block is lasting longer than, say, a few weeks, then read on – you’ll need a heavy-duty intervention to keep your book on track.
2. Mark your milestones
Writing is like using a certain muscle; we have to keep exercising it, otherwise its power simply fades away.
In keeping with the analogy, writing a book can feel a little like a marathon; it takes time, dedication and practice. Use markers along the way, similar to a marathon runner, who takes each step at a time and whittles away at the miles ahead by celebrating each small milestone.
So, get down to it and remember to give yourself a huge pat on the back when you’re a quarter of the way through, halfway through, and especially when the end is in sight, because this can be the hardest part – so don’t stop the forward momentum!
3. Relax
Relaxing is absolutely key to writing. When you’re writing, you’re using the creative part of your brain, rather than the logical, black-or-white side of it. Creative writing is a “soft-focus” skill, whereas analysing something is “hard” and laser-like.
To get back to your writing, relax completely – let go of all the worries, stress, critical-thinking and allow your mind to wander to a happier place. Choose to do this in whatever way suits you best, be it a lovely hot bath or a walk or jog in the country, or a film.
After a few hours of proper relaxation, without thinking about your book at all, you’ll come back full of new ideas, having resolved whatever challenges you had with writing your book, and raring to get back to work on it. Remember to enjoy the process of writing a book!
4. Don’t compare your work to anyone else’s
It’s natural to compare ourselves – and for others to compare our work – with someone else’s. While that can be an interesting exercise, while we’re writing it can lead to feelings of not being good enough.
Don’t try to mimic anybody else; the wonderful thing about your book is that it is unique to you. You have a one-of-a-kind perspective on the world and your gift is to express that in a way that only you can do.
While it’s a good idea to check out what others are writing about, following book trends and admiring the work of others, we writers are often hyper-critical of our own work and comparing it with someone else can put a serious stop to our creative flow.
The best solution is to write in a silo and don’t compare your book with another until you’ve finished writing it.
5. Discipline
Discipline is the key to unblocking yourself as a writer. If all else fails, simply plough on and keep writing; it’s what marks the would-be writers from the published authors.
Writing can be a lonely existence which requires us to switch off our phone and other distractions, and simply get down to it – no excuses. There’s really no other way around it.
The more you write, the more you get used to the discipline of sitting for long hours in front of a machine or notebook. Just pick up the pen, or ready your fingers over the keyboard, and write!
If this sounds too daunting, then start with an hour, then build up to spending more and more time penning your book.
Sometimes the words feel as if they’re not flowing but if you get down to it, treating writing as a discipline that you have to keep practising, then your creative mind will kick in eventually.
What you write doesn’t matter; what matters is that you write. Get into the habit of writing anything; let it be a stream of consciousness, or what’s known as “channelled writing”. Once you’ve started doing this, you’re exercising that creative muscle we’ve talked about, and it’ll become easier to do it at will. Soon, you’ll be back to writing your book again.
The great thing about this exercise is that you might find other book ideas coming to you; it’s worth keeping what you’ve written because you might look back at it and realise you’ve conceived of some amazing stuff.
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