Much has been written on the power of gratitude, but can it really make miracles? And how can you find time for feeling gratitude when there are so many more pressing matters to attend to, or when life sometimes seems so crappy?
Today’s post is about why having a little appreciation matters so much, and how we can choose gratitude even in the toughest of times.
“The more grateful I am, the more beauty I see.”
– Mary Davis
You’ve probably heard statements along the lines of, “Be grateful for what you have and more blessings will come your way.”
This idea is more than just a nice notion conceived by unnecessarily positive people.
Gratitude brings many benefits, not least, improved health overall and a greater sense of wellbeing – and this is underpinned by science.
The science of gratitude
One example of the many studies on gratitude comes from a branch of psychology called positive psychology.
As per the name, this approach to human psychology switches the lens onto more positive aspects of human psychology, rather than the trauma.
It also focuses on the behaviours, attitudes and experiences that make our lives fuller and more joyful.
More than that, they were less likely to seek the help of a physician – suggesting that their physical health was also positively impacted by the practice of gratitude, too.
The participants were asked to write a few statements every week.
Each of three groups was given a topic: one wrote about what they were grateful for that week; another noted neutral events that had occurred during the week; and another group was asked to make a list of gripes from the week.
The experiment lasted for 10 weeks.
Guess which group had the most positive outcome from the study?
It showed that gratitude led not only to significantly reduced symptoms but that changes in the brain which occurred as a result of the study remained for 12 weeks after the exercise had concluded.
In other words, the positive effects of gratitude last long after any initial feelings of thankfulness.
The study involved nearly 300 adults, mostly college students, who were seeking mental health counselling at university. Before their counselling started, they were judged to have clinically low levels of mental health.
Again, there were three groups.
One was asked to write one letter of gratitude to another person for three weeks, the second had to outline their deepest thoughts and feelings about something negative that had happened, and the third group was not assigned any writing activity.
The group that wrote the gratitude letter was found to have improved mental health when checked four weeks after the study, and also at the three-month mark.
What’s more, further investigation revealed that changes occurred in the medial prefrontal cortex of the brain when people expressed true gratitude; the changes made them more attentive as to how they showed gratitude to others.
So, perhaps a healthy dose of gratitude could make the world a better place?
Simple ways to feel more grateful
It’s easy to conjure up feelings of gratitude if you put your mind to it. Here are a few ideas for invoking a sense of appreciation:
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Languish in happiness for as long as you can, even if the feeling is fleeting – let a joyful moment seep out and expand into your life.
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Happy memories are stored in your brain. Make sure they’re filed in the ‘top priority’ cache for easy access, so you can roll the reel again and again!
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Notice nature: a single flower, an ant, a bird… We have access to an abundance of things to be grateful for in this beautiful home we call Earth.
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Do something that makes you feel happy! Actively seek opportunities to feel grateful. Just a short time doing something that enhances your joy (as long as it does not harm your own health or that of others) will benefit your health and happiness in the long term. Bring out the Monopoly board!
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Be kind to others! Gratitude begets gratitude, so spread a little kindness and it will be returned. Do this without thought for what’s coming back; just be grateful when you realise that your good turn has returned to you in a powerful way.
Conclusion
There’s no doubt that gratitude has the ability to improve our wellbeing at all levels – physical, mental and emotional – in fact, it just might be one of the most underused resources at our disposal when it comes to living a happy and fulfilling life.
Have you tried being more appreciative of life? What’s changed for you? If you enjoyed this article and have any thoughts on the subject, please post in the comments below!
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