Find out some of the ‘tells’ that may indicate your child is suffering from depression or anxiety.
Worrying news regarding mental health care for children and young people in England emerged recently. A poll by NHS Providers
revealed that children’s mental health services are creaking under the strain of increased demand.
Two-thirds of trusts leaders said they were unable to meet demand for both community and in-patient Child and Adolescent Mental Health Services (CAMHS).
Another 78% leaders are either ‘extremely’ or ‘moderately’ concerned about their ability to meet the anticipated level of demand for mental health services within the next 12-18 months.
Meanwhile, another study has shown that children and young people’s mental health has been deteriorating since 2017: in 2017, one in nine (10.8%) of those surveyed, both boys and girls aged between 5 and 16 years, were
identified as having a probable mental disorder.
By 2020, when the COVID-19 epidemic was established in the UK with its subsequent ‘locking down’ of society, an estimated
one in six children
aged 5-16 were likely to be affected, according to The Children’s Society.
In light of these figures and the likely increase in cases, today’s blog is offers advice to those caring for children and young people.
Carry on reading for some of the signs your child might be affected and what you can do about it.
Signs your child might be depressed
It can be difficult to separate normal teenage behaviour and the anxieties that relate to those years, such as exams or the flood of new, unfamiliar feelings which might be caused by hormonal changes.
How do you know this your child’s behaviour is a part of that natural developmental growth and something more serious?
Depression lasts longer term than the mood swings often associated with this age group and it impacts their daily life, preventing them from engaging in the activities that support their development at this critical stage of their growth into young adults.
They might be:
• Quieter than they normally are/unwilling to participate
• Isolate themselves from family and friends
• Lack energy or motivation
• Be extremely self-critical, indicating low self-esteem.
• Getting upset or tearful regularly.
Signs your child is suffering anxiety
While a little teenage angst is perfectly normal, since teenage years can feel like a rollercoaster of emotions as children learn about their identity, friendships and other issues, anxiety in children is more pervasive.
It can ‘bleed’ into their activities and affect their quality of life. If you think a child you care for is suffering anxiety, you might notice the following signs:
• Heightened emotions such as anger or becoming upset or tearful more easily
• Fidgeting/nervous energy or seeming ‘on edge’
• Eating habits change
• Disinterested in socialising with friends or family.
How you can help
1. Talk to your child. Encourage them to share what they’re feeling but don’t push too hard. Make sure they know that you’re there, and willing to listen, if they need to talk through anything.
2. Don’t judge a child for feeling the way they do; their feelings are valid, even if you don’t understand.
3. Try not to let you child think they've done something wrong. Be patient and listen to what they have to say. Try to carve out time to do this rather than tackling any issues while you’re stressed or distracted.
What happens if childhood mental health issues are not addressed?
Left untreated, mental illness in children can lead to problems in adulthood, for instance, an inability to achieve their full potential and in more severe cases, alcohol or drug dependency, relationship and social issues and also suicide.
It is important to deal with mental health issues in children and young people, when the majority of those suffering minor complaints have a greater chance of recovery.
Getting help
If you have concerns about the mental wellbeing of a child, and especially if their behaviour is more extreme, such as self-harm or risky/destructive behaviour, then encourage them to open up to a GP or someone they trust at school.
There are a range of treatment options are available to child suffering mental health issues and their families, such as individual and group talking therapies, and parental support and training.
Conclusion
Children and young people up to the age of 19 can also speak in confidence to a counsellor at the UK helpline
Childline.
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